CEMETERY ETIQUETTE
Cemetery Etiquette
A cemetery is a unique place. While it is part of the everyday scene, it is not part of everyday life. That is to say, it is a place where tranquility and quiet are the desired norm, and activities of everyday life should be suspended.
Respect The Grounds
Cemeteries are places of reflection and mourning, so always conduct yourself with dignity and respect. Speak softly, avoid loud conversations, and refrain from using your phone in a way that disturbs others. Remember, this is a place where people come to grieve and remember their loved ones.
Follow Cemetery Rules
Be sure to familiarize yourself with these rules before entering, and adhere to any posted signs or instructions from cemetery staff. This ensures that the space is maintained in a way that honors the deceased and provides a safe environment for all.
Watch Your Step
While it might be tempting to explore the grounds, always stay on the paths and walkways provided. Avoid walking over graves or memorials, as it can be disrespectful to both the deceased and their families. Some graves may have personal items left by loved ones; do not touch or disturb these items.
Be Mindful of Your Surroundings
Cemeteries are often shared spaces, meaning you might encounter people visiting graves. Be aware of your surroundings, and if someone is grieving nearby, maintain a respectful distance. It's best to avoid taking photos, especially of graves, unless permitted or you are certain it won't intrude on others' privacy.
Leave Nature Undisturbed
Many cemeteries are also home to local wildlife and well-maintained landscaping. Do not pick flowers, even if they appear wild, as they may have been intentionally planted. If you bring flowers or other items to leave at a grave, be sure they’re appropriate and will not cause damage to the environment.
Supervise Children
Children are welcome in cemeteries, especially when visiting family graves, but they should be supervised at all times. Explain the significance of the cemetery to them, and ensure they behave respectfully, avoiding running or playing on or near graves.
